D.E.S.S.E.R.T.S spelled backwards is S.T.R.E.S.S.E.D
WHAT ARE YOU WORRIED ABOUT?
Someone very dear to me caught my attention as we were having a conversation recently. She told me, "I'm going home, get in my bed, and eat this bag of cookies." She went on to tell me that lately all she does is eat sweets; it makes her feel better. When I questioned why she was eating so much she said, "Stress! My job is stressing me out. These crazy children are stressing me out. I just want to get in my bed, eat my sweets, and not be bothered by anyone." I was immediately reminded of the word D.E.S.S.E.R.T.S. She used
desserts to help ease her
stressed situation.
The dictionary defines stress as physical, mental, or emotional strain or tension. At some point in our lives, we will all deal with stress. It can take a toll on us in various ways. Stress can cause us to do things we normally would not do. It can cause us to shut down completely. The way we deal with it depends on who we are individually. I handle stressful situations differently than you, and you differently from another person. We are all wired differently and process things in a way that only we know how at that given moment. There are many days we struggle trying to cope with the drama and issues that come from our jobs, our health, or what may be going on in our families. God created us and knows that because of our fallen nature we sometimes allow stress to rule our lives. Everyone suffers from stress at one time or another. In fact, research shows that children who live in a stressful home environment are at a higher risk to become stressed by life’s challenges. It can come out in the form of behavior problems at school, disobedience, and rebellion. There are more and more cases of children as young as age 3 dealing with anxiety and depression.
Lifting our burdens and concerns to a holy and righteous God daily will erase the stress in our lives.
Many people become stressed, in my opinion, because they don’t trust God to provide the basic necessities of life. Jesus said in Mathew 6:25,27 not to be anxious for anything. Don't worry about what you will eat, drink, what clothes you have. Life is about more than that. People stress over money because they never seem to feel that there is enough of it. They worry about making ends meet, often living paycheck to paycheck. Or they become consumed by materialism (keeping up with the Jones') and in turn, become stressed out about maintaining a lifestyle they couldn't afford anyway. Being materialistic leads to stress because we believe the lie that material things relieve stress and lead to happiness, contentment, and joy. But guess what? They do not! If you are one of those people who will not be outdone by your friend or neighbor, remember, What God has for You, is for You! In due season you will reap all that God has promised you, but don't let it stress you out in the meantime. What is worrying and stressing going to do other than make you sick?
The Bible gives us clear answers on how we should deal with stress, worry, and anxiety. Many people turn to food as a way to cope with stress. Others turn to the use of drugs. Some turn to alcohol. Others smoke cigarettes or let it drive you back to smoking when you've given up this habit before. Some wake up in the middle of the night and post on Facebook, "I can't sleep". They then play on their phone, or play on the internet and end up paying for it the next day because they didn't get enough rest. "So what am I supposed to do?"... I'm glad you asked... Sit quietly or go for a walk listening for His voice. Cry out to Him in desperation. Read His Word, the Bible. Get on your knees and pour out our hearts to Him in prayer. When we do this, He promises that He will give us rest. God knew that Jesus was our remedy for stress … not drugs, food, alcohol, or Facebook.
We Desperately Need Him: John 14:1 says, "Let not your hearts be troubled. Believe in God; believe also in me.” We desperately need Him in our lives. We need Him because He is the only one who can give us the strength to cope with the troubles in our lives. Believing in Him does not mean that we will have a trouble-free life or that we will not succumb to stress in our lives. It simply means that a life without Jesus Christ makes coping with stress an impossible and very difficult task to do.
Believing leads to trusting. Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us to “Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths.” Leaning on “our own understanding” often means handling stress the way the world says.
A Few Questions to Think About:
- Who do you call or turn to when you feel stressed and burdened?
- If you look to Jesus, what way do you do it to ensure it is personal and meaningful?
- How do you feel when you turn to Him?
I remember a particular season in my life when things were spiraling out of control. The stress of that situation had me in bondage. I didn't know which way to turn, so I often called my best friends to fill them in. They would give me advice saying, "girl, if I were you I would....." I remember during that very dark time going to the doctor for one thing, but by the time I had left, he noticed I was stressed. He gave me some samples of a mild anti-depressant that I could take when I felt I needed to relax. I remember vividly saying to that doctor, that I don't need an anti-depressant, I have Jesus! I left the prescription laying on the table because I had made up in my mind that the situation didn't have me. I made the decision to trust God's Word. The word of God is our ultimate guide to a stress-reduced life. David says, “I sought the LORD, and he answered me and delivered me from all my fears” (
Psalm 34:4). David knew that by seeking the Lord and sharing his troubles with Him that perhaps he would find favor with Him. The Lord in turn answered him and calmed him down.
The stress of all kinds is a natural part of life. How we choose to deal with it is up to us. If we choose to try to do it on our own we face a long, uphill battle that will not end well. The only way we can deal with stress is with Jesus Christ, first by believing in Him. Without believing in Him we are on our own, which makes coping with stress almost impossible. Second, we need to trust Him and obey Him. We should trust Him to do what is right because His ways are always best for us. Disobedience and sin can produce stress and cut us off from the only means of peace and joy. By obeying His commandments we reap the blessings of true contentment from a loving God. Finally, we need to seek His peace daily by filling our minds with His Word, lifting all things to Him in prayer, and sitting at His feet in awe and reverence. It is only by His grace, mercy, and love that the stress in our lives can be managed.
Make a decision today to trust God, not D.E.S.S.E.R.T.S
References:
http://www.gotquestions.org/Bible-stress.html. Retrieved February 21, 2012
Drew Fletcher and Brandon Cox. http://www.faithandhealthconnection.org/weekly-health-scripture-matthew-1128-30-jesus-on-stress-management/. Retrieved