One indication that you're on the right path is when you discover that people are talking about you. It can be unsettling to realize that those you thought were in your corner are having private conversations about you behind closed doors. However, take comfort in the fact that their true colors are coming to light.
These individuals may have once been close friends, all the while smiling at you while harboring jealousy or negativity. They might reach out regularly, engage with you on social media, and present themselves as your closest allies. Yet, they often appear only when they need something from you, secretly waiting for you to stumble. When you share your challenges with them, their support may lack sincerity, revealing a hidden desire for your struggles to manifest.
It's crucial to periodically reevaluate who you consider a friend, as this may even include family members. People enter our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. While some friends may have supported you through various stages of your life, there comes a time when you may need to let them go. This can be painful, but just as gardeners prune plants to keep them healthy and vibrant, you must do the same with your own life. As time progresses, both circumstances and people change. Recognize that releasing certain relationships can elevate you to new heights. Like a helium-filled balloon, you must let go of excess weight to soar higher. As you grow, it’s natural for your circle of friends to change. You can’t fly like an eagle if you’re still mingling with the chickens. This doesn't imply that your past acquaintances were bad; it simply means you've outgrown the relationship.
Turn your haters into motivators and use their negativity as a stepping stone. God is calling you to reach new heights, whether in your career, church, or community. As you ascend, remember that not everyone will celebrate your success.
Mindful Moment of Reflection:
When was the last time you took a close look at your list of friends and acquaintances? Today, take the time to analyze who is in your circle. Identify those who are toxic versus those who are healthy for you. Toxic relationships can be harmful, and if you find people in that category, it may be time to let them go. Pray and seek God’s guidance as you navigate this season of pruning. It may not always feel good, but it’s a necessary process.
Prayer:
Dear Heavenly Father, help me to discern who truly supports me and who I need to release. I am ready to rise higher in You, but I understand this may be difficult if I hold on to the wrong people. Prepare me for the disappointment that might arise during this pruning process, and replace it with joy and the right relationships to fulfill my destiny. I trust You in this and in all things.
Amen.
